Control
B: Have control of the situation
D: Solve my own problem
A: Feel good about my problems and myself
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C: Make others happy
D': Allow others to solve my problems
In order to Feel good about my problems and myself I must Have control of the situation and in order to Have control of the situation I must Solve my own problem. But, in order to Feel good about my problems and myself I must also Make others happy and in order to Make others happy I must Allow others to solve my problems. I can't both Solve my own problem and Allow others to solve my problems.
| Relation | Assumption(s) | Injection(s) |
| B-D | 1) If I don't then they decide for me 2) I pick the solution | 1) What if both of us solve the problem 2) Do I have to pick the solution? |