Control

Control

B: Have control of the situation
D: Solve my own problem
A: Feel good about my problems and myself
B-D:Assumption(s)Injection(s)
1) If I don't then they decide for me
2) I pick the solution
1) What if both of us solve the problem
2) Do I have to pick the solution?
C: Make others happy
D': Allow others to solve my problems

In order to Feel good about my problems and myself I must Have control of the situation and in order to Have control of the situation I must Solve my own problem. But, in order to Feel good about my problems and myself I must also Make others happy and in order to Make others happy I must Allow others to solve my problems. I can't both Solve my own problem and Allow others to solve my problems.

RelationAssumption(s)Injection(s)
B-D1) If I don't then they decide for me
2) I pick the solution
1) What if both of us solve the problem
2) Do I have to pick the solution?