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Should I let my parents solve my problems or should I...

D: Solve my own problem
D': Allow others to solve my problems
B: Have control of the situation
C: Make others happy
A: Feel good about my problems and myself
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In order to Feel good about my problems and myself I must Have control of the situation and in order to Have control of the situation I must Solve my own problem. But, in order to Feel good about my problems and myself I must also Make others happy and in order to Make others happy I must Allow others to solve my problems. I can't both Solve my own problem and Allow others to solve my problems.
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B-D1) If I don't then they decide for me
2) I pick the solution
1) What if both of us solve the problem
2) Do I have to pick the solution?